Category Archives: Relationships

Mock My Words by Chandra Shekhar

Reviewed by Dianne Woodman

Mock My WordsMock My Words is comprised of three storylines. Each one of them is interconnected with a plot that involves a renowned author by the name of David Tan, who left China to live in the United States. The main storyline not only revolves around David’s struggles and challenges as a new teacher at John Steinbeck University in Northern California, but also portrays the stress and anxiety that David experiences while trying to survive a rough patch in his marriage. The secondary storylines involve David’s wife, Laura, and Melissa, a student at the university.

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David is worried and nervous about whether or not the students in his writing course will accept and respect him. This dilemma is due to the disconnect between his writing and his speaking. Although David writes beautiful prose, he speaks English very poorly, which makes it difficult to communicate with people. Even though he wants to share his love of classical literature with his students, they are ill-mannered and rude towards him. It does not get any easier for him when some of his colleagues rebuff him. In addition to work issues, whenever David is at home, he always feels that he has to tread carefully around his wife’s feelings in order not to upset her and possibly ruin any chances at intimacy.

Good Morning Diego Garcia: A Voyage of Discovery (Journeys) (Volume 2) by Susan Joyce

Reviewed by Douglas R. Cobb

Good Morning Diego GarciaWith Good Morning Diego Garcia: A Journey of Discovery (Journeys – Book 2), talented author Susan Joyce relates her further memoirs, which she began in The Lullaby Illusion: A Journey of Awakening (Journeys – Volume 1). The result is a fascinating book, combining the genres of memoirs and travel books, relating the author’s further adventures, when she and her husband, Charles, are invited by friends to travel in a yacht they are breaking in on its maiden voyage, and they travel to many exotic locations. Like in the first book, the author undergoes an internal journey of self-discovery as well as experiencing the journey of a lifetime places many people only dream of seeing.

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Good Morning Diego Garcia begins with the narrator and Charles back in Ojai, California, after having spent a tumultuous time in Cyprus, living through the 1974 coup and war there. The couple are settling into a house they have rented, with Charles waiting on his old job to call him back and let him know work is available for him. They do not seem to be worried about financial matters very much, as Charles has money socked away in at least a couple of bank accounts for them to get by on.

Be Your Own Brand of Sexy: A New Sexual Revolution for Women by Susan L. Edelman, M.D.

Be Your Own Brand of Sexy

Reviewed by Lisa Brown-Gilbert

Positing a revamped sexual revolution for women, Dr. Susan L. Edelman invites the modern dating female to change their lives by changing their dating habits in her book, Be Your Own Brand of Sexy. This is a must have book for all women dating or looking to date, expertly suffused with invaluable guidance from Dr. Edelman that intelligently examines the current dating scene, and does away with the outmoded dating culture of the woman who settles for or accepts less than her ideal mate. In fact it poses a revolutionary change in standards for the modern dating woman that equips women with the means to know themselves and in turn help themselves and ends the potential for dating/relationship heartache.

Making It by Amanda Gibbs

Making It

Reviewed by Timea Barabas

Love has many faces and Amanda Gibbs invites you to discover one of these through her book Making It. Her stories are not restricted to a single literary form, but take on whatever serves them best, so you can expect anything from prose and poetry to vignettes.

Actually, Making It is like a written photo album of a couple’s life. The chapters are like HD snapshots of adventures these two shared from the day they met to their 30th anniversary. The high-resolution imagery allows you to witness the smallest of details and the most intimate thoughts. What the reader sees about this couple is not restricted only to the material dimension, but it goes beyond that, to the magical and still largely unmapped minds of a woman and a man. The two main characters bare the burden of representing their gender, and they are both, in a sense the archetypal male and female. However, they bare the mark of our modern times. There is an interesting dynamic between what both of them think, say, and do. Their actions (just like ours) are not always smoothly linked to their thoughts and words. It takes time and dedication to get to truly know a person, sometimes it takes 30 years, and sometimes a lifetime is still not enough.

No Crying for Elena: A Woman Raised in a Cult and Her Daughter Finally Find Salvation in Each Other by N. Meridian

No Crying for Elena Reviewed by Diane Pollock

Child of a Cult, Woman of the World.

The author relates the true story of her life as a young girl in a cult who was forced into the real world following a raid upon their compound. She carves out a life for herself as a teenager, but is sideswiped by a rape that led to her pregnancy and the birth of her daughter Elena. She triumphs in the end as we leave her looking forward with hope.

The author has had an intriguing and difficult life, overcoming much adversity. I feel that the very writing of this book was quite cathartic and even necessary for her. The book teases us with flashes and glances at her life, leaving us longing for further detail. For example, we learn of her moving in with her Aunt Bee and living with her for many months before suddenly being told that Aunt Bee had an adult daughter who was bipolar and quite cruel to our heroine.

Dating Tips for You by Nocita Carter

Reviewed by Douglas R. Cobb

Dating Tips for You by Nocita CarterDating: Love it, hate it–we’re all either eventually going to date, have dated with varying degrees of success, or are married or in a relationship currently, but possibly one day in the future, will end up dating again. There are lots of different self-help and dating books that have been published to make the success you have at dating more likely than if you, to use a baseball metaphor, just keep swinging at the ball and missing it again and again. One book that I’ve read lately that is short, to the point, and contains numerous informative and useful tips on dating is Dating Tips for You by Nocita Carter. Though I am married, I saw many tips that would have been useful for me to know while I was dating, and ones which my teen daughter likely will find useful to know.

Different books focus on different aspects of dating. This book covers many topics that anyone embarking on wanting to meet someone they will want to have fun with and maybe share their lives with at some point down the road either have run into, or will, such as who should pay the bill on a date, or if the cost should be split. There are many schools of thought on this, because the man might feel as a man it’s his responsibility to pay for the bill. However, the woman may not want to feel as if, by the man paying for the bill, that she is then obligated to have sex with him. A happy medium the author mentions is that the two people might agree to switch off, one paying for the first date, the other, for the second.

Other topics include if you should date your boss or a coworker, if it’s a good idea to date your neighbor, if dating for fun with no commitment is for you or not, and if your date should meet your family and friends. As to the last topic I mentioned, doing it right away is generally not good, as it puts a lot of pressure on everyone involved. Whenever you do have your boyfriend or girlfriend meet your friends or parents, you should let them know or warn them about certain things that might be touchy subjects, or things that might make for sources of conversation during dinner, for instance.